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40대 후반 ~ 50대 초반의 대책없는 퇴사 와 그 대책
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A word that goes on
Act 2, Youth has gone by - A little sad, a little long letter -- A story for heads of families who retire from work in their late 40s, near the age of 50, to fathers who have worked hard all their lives, but are still lacking, and still beautiful to be lacking
1. Don't be too desperate for reemployment
Even at that age, there are fathers who want to get a job that is similar to what they keep doing and what they are doing. If you get re-employed now, you will soon be forced to leave the company in the same way. Rather, it is better to greet the whole world barefoot when you are a year younger. (It's obvious to think about it), of course, it is better to get re-employed in many cases. If you work for another day, you have even one more day left. However, there is nothing good about hanging yourself from something that doesn't work or looking at it constantly.
2. Don't do what you learn
Use what you already know, or do what you can without learning, if someone shows up nearby who wants to teach you something at this time, you're mostly a scammer.
3. Don't start a business
It's so stiff that you might never wake up again. If you fall down now, you will never get up again. Unless you are thoroughly prepared that you could die if you fail, don't start a business. The competition to barely eat and drink by setting up a chicken restaurant in the neighborhood is much worse than the competition for your child to be the top student in the school.
(Franchisees and store development financing, etc., explain, "Somewhere in a wonderful place, there was only one wonderful item, and this time the boss was forced to sell it as an unfortunate private matter, and it's a rare opportunity to come back." Why do you do it yourself if it's good enough, or tell me when you don't even know it, without telling your friends or relatives? Think about why.) ("Just one thing, for today," it's a 100% scam.)
4. Do your own work.
The head can never keep up with the younger people. There is nothing to write about, and the more you work, the healthier you become, and there are still some to write about, and most of them have no retirement age. It's good to look for a place like Albamon, Alba Heaven. The physical work in that place doesn't make a small profit.
(What should I do about this? Let go of the same mind. It won't be easy, but I think it's all fate, and I have to take it easy that it's not just me.) (Many people are applying for Tada Driver and Coupang Delivery Part-time, and it's common to find someone to work for a logistics company or a restaurant service company. My heart is important. And now, 'Tada' is policy good or bad. Stop talking about that. It doesn't matter anymore.)
5. Make up with your wife (IMPORTANT)
The financial secrets between the couple must be completely eliminated. We need understanding and trust in money. If the couple is bad at this time of year, it is 10 million times more difficult. It would be best if there were no secrets from the beginning, but once a couple had a lot of secrets, even one or two, little by little. It is better to give up face and have an open conversation with each other with the determination to lose face.
(It's not easy. It's a big crisis here. But don't just talk about money. Don't try to completely eliminate all secrets about life in every problem. No matter how perfect communication you seek, you or your wife are not perfect human beings. Stop it and stop it. Too much. Too little)
6. Make money separately (IMPORTANT2 !!)
For example, if you need 3 million won a month, your family will have to pay 1.5 million won, your wife will pay 1.5 million won, your wife will pay 150, your wife will pay 100, and your oldest child will pay 500,000 won. Even if you don't have a place to earn 3 million won a month, 150 won a month has a place to earn. There are a lot. You can see it in places like Albamon, Alba Heaven, etc. as mentioned above. Stop thinking about the face of the breadwinner who looks good, saying that he will earn all by himself and take responsibility for everything. Those wonderful days are over now. It may be hard to accept, but let's stop thinking about depressing and work. It's all useless
If you need 4 million won a month, you can split 300 won and spend it, and let's spend the rest of the shortfall from the deposit by 1 million won per month. Make an agreement between your families and cooperate within each other's understanding. Then, you must endure until the youngest is grown up. As you endure, you will get a knack and sometimes you will get other good answers.
"We need 5 million won a month, but we don't even have a deposit." Some people say that sometimes, but know, it's not your family anymore. If there is no compromise between the family and the cost cannot be reduced, whatever you say or work is useless. Instead of trying hard to work hard, you should first reconcile, build trust, and cooperate between the husband and wife.
(It's not easy to talk about this even with family members. I can't stop talking. It hurts my pride the most, and it's never easy here. To be honest, however, you may be confused right now, but all your family members understand it later.
What's more, women's sense of reality is incredibly quick, so they already know everything before you say it. I was just waiting for your decision. You might not believe it, but you'll know if you try it. Try it right away and you'll see. How many things can you know without trying?)
7. etc - go to the hospital whenever you have time
If you do it wrong, you'll get sick in one shot. If you get caught wrong, the hospital fee is no joke. If you get sick a little bit, don't hold it in and go to the hospital as if you're going in and out of a rat's hole. There's no better place to do something like this than Korea. It's possible and good because it's in Korea. I'll also get some medical insurance premiums that I've only paid so far.
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